My Mom is visiting us this weekend from Maryland and we are so excited to have her. There are a lot of stories of people who choose to go vegan only to be met with disapproval from their family. Well, not my Mom. Literally 4 days after I became vegan over 3 years ago she was going to be visiting for the weekend. Every visit from my mom comes bundled with some kind of food, usually baked goods. Cookies, brownies, muffins, and banana bread are often found in her luggage. So it was with some trepidation that I called her before her first visit after going vegan to let her know that she shouldn’t bake us anything with milk, eggs, or butter and that it was my choice. I knew that she put love into all of that baking that she did for us and I was taking that option away from her. I was worried that she would be insulted, upset and take it the wrong way.
She showed up that weekend with a portion of her suitcase dedicated to completely vegan baked goods from recipes that she found online. The cookies were a bit crumbly and the banana bread was a bit dense, but the taste was spot on. I was so proud and felt (and still feel) so blessed that my mom has completely embraced my vegan lifestyle and has actually incorporated it into her life more than I ever thought she would.
We have gifted her a couple of vegan cookbooks, including one of our favorites The Joy of Vegan Baking, and she has been baking exclusively vegan for a while now. She bakes vegan for her coworkers, her family, and surprises them nearly every time with how good vegan baking can be.
When I meet new vegan folks the topic of family acceptance almost always comes up in conversation. I inevitably tell this story (sorry if you’ve heard it before). My dad works for the USDA’s Animal Welfare Information Center (no, he is not vegan … yet). He ends up working with a lot of animal rights groups including one of the biggest, the infamous PETA. When my dad’s office and PETA had a meeting he suggested that my mom make a selection of vegan desserts to go along with the vegan catering that was going to be provided. Well she did and the folks from PETA were so impressed with her baking that they sent her a vegan cookbook as a thank you gift. Can you feel the pride coming through my typing? Well have faith, it’s there.
When I decided to go vegan it was because I knew that I would be making a difference. It is hard for me to express how proud I am that, because I went vegan several years ago, my mom is now helping skeptics realize how good vegan food can be. My mom is helping me spread the vegan message! Because I made the choice to go vegan my mom baked vegan desserts for PETA, that is crazy.
We are so thrilled to have her visiting and are excited to take her to some fun vegan places and cook some great food for her while she is here.